Being a daughter, being a mother

When I was a young teenage gal, I wished to have somebody as good, loving as my dad. His patient make me proud of being his daughther. My dad has everything ; brain, money, happy family, good childrens :)...And when he found that lately he was missing sthng in his life, it must be a shock to him. My dad suffered of colon cancer and he just got an operation last 2 months. I remembered the day he called me to tell me about blood test result, I was in hurry to class. I was shock but I couldnt have much time to talk to him. On the way to the Uni., I was crying in the car wishing that I could be with him and support him.

I might be the black sheep in the family who wont listen to my parents' advices. I just dont want my family to be overprotective and ignore the fact that I am nearly 30 years old with one 4 31/2 yr old son. Being away from family is hard when it comes to sickness issue. What should I do?????

My dad is a survivor. He is a strong man with strong will. I might not be listened to him always but I always adore him and it wont end. No matter who u are, how bad u r, if u are poor u are still my dad. My one and only dad. I just want my son to love me as what I am. I want him to remember me as a good mother as I always describe my dad as a good father to my friends. Regardless of parents misbehaviour or any past history we can not deny their greatest contributions to our life.